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Mr. Troy Ford's avatar

Feeling this, Lyle. A good old clonk in the noggin to set things straight... ;) Also wondering if I should start broaching "exit strategies" with my therapist, even though I want to marry her, even though we're both gay. And already married.

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Kevin Maguire's avatar

I can definitely attest to the power of writing as therapy. It’s cathartic to get all those thoughts that have been rattling around your head down, and to try and come to some sort of conclusion around them all—even if it isn’t definitive, it’s a step in the right direction.

One additional thing I’ll add. Don’t close the door on the idea of therapy forever. You might decide in 6 months you’d like to talk to them again. If so, don’t beat yourself up and see it as a step backwards. Listen to what you need.

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