I don't know how I feel about your story. As someone with CP, I don't view my life as a constant reminder of what happened. I only think about it for a few minutes on my birthday. I usually question whether I should be celebrating my birthday since that was the day my life changed. But then my family reminds me of the wonderful life I've had BECAUSE of CP. And I KNOW my parents don't see my struggle as a reminder. Maybe it's because your daughter is more severe than me (Although I do technically have severe CP also) or maybe your still getting used to CP. I don't know but I hope it gets better. Having CP is more challenging but it's part of who I am and I'm proud of it (I won't say I wouldn't trade it for the world because that's just being unrealistic) I hope you teach your daughter to be proud of her CP.
Do No (Self) Harm
So beautifully written! We really never know what we're capable of until we've been pushed to the limit ourselves.
Thank you so much for sharing, Lyle. I struggle with self-harm and being open about it. Thank you for making me feel less alone.
By the way, as someone who is thinking about starting a blog, I really like your website. I'm trying to design mine and it's not working out well
I don't know how I feel about your story. As someone with CP, I don't view my life as a constant reminder of what happened. I only think about it for a few minutes on my birthday. I usually question whether I should be celebrating my birthday since that was the day my life changed. But then my family reminds me of the wonderful life I've had BECAUSE of CP. And I KNOW my parents don't see my struggle as a reminder. Maybe it's because your daughter is more severe than me (Although I do technically have severe CP also) or maybe your still getting used to CP. I don't know but I hope it gets better. Having CP is more challenging but it's part of who I am and I'm proud of it (I won't say I wouldn't trade it for the world because that's just being unrealistic) I hope you teach your daughter to be proud of her CP.
Pushed to the absolute limit. You came thru well. I pray for you and your family! Love to all.