Substack makes it super easy to get started. I recommend it. It's been great for me because I can focus more on my writing, rather than on changing things on the website.
I don't know how I feel about your story. As someone with CP, I don't view my life as a constant reminder of what happened. I only think about it for a few minutes on my birthday. I usually question whether I should be celebrating my birthday since that was the day my life changed. But then my family reminds me of the wonderful life I've had BECAUSE of CP. And I KNOW my parents don't see my struggle as a reminder. Maybe it's because your daughter is more severe than me (Although I do technically have severe CP also) or maybe your still getting used to CP. I don't know but I hope it gets better. Having CP is more challenging but it's part of who I am and I'm proud of it (I won't say I wouldn't trade it for the world because that's just being unrealistic) I hope you teach your daughter to be proud of her CP.
Thank you so much for commenting, Chelsie! It's interesting to read about your perspective.
In a way, you're right, I am still getting used to CP. Em is only two-and-a-half years old, so it's still pretty new for me. I love the idea of teaching her to be proud of her CP.
I remember telling Allison before Em's first birthday that while her birthday will always remind us of that difficult day, I don't want that to be the thing we dwell on during that day each year. Her birthday should be special, just like it is for any other kid.
So beautifully written! We really never know what we're capable of until we've been pushed to the limit ourselves.
That's so true, Alicia. And to be clear, I'm referencing your second sentence ;)
Thank you so much for sharing, Lyle. I struggle with self-harm and being open about it. Thank you for making me feel less alone.
♥️ I’m glad to have helped in some small way. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you need someone to connect, talk, vent with about it.
By the way, as someone who is thinking about starting a blog, I really like your website. I'm trying to design mine and it's not working out well
Substack makes it super easy to get started. I recommend it. It's been great for me because I can focus more on my writing, rather than on changing things on the website.
I don't know how I feel about your story. As someone with CP, I don't view my life as a constant reminder of what happened. I only think about it for a few minutes on my birthday. I usually question whether I should be celebrating my birthday since that was the day my life changed. But then my family reminds me of the wonderful life I've had BECAUSE of CP. And I KNOW my parents don't see my struggle as a reminder. Maybe it's because your daughter is more severe than me (Although I do technically have severe CP also) or maybe your still getting used to CP. I don't know but I hope it gets better. Having CP is more challenging but it's part of who I am and I'm proud of it (I won't say I wouldn't trade it for the world because that's just being unrealistic) I hope you teach your daughter to be proud of her CP.
Thank you so much for commenting, Chelsie! It's interesting to read about your perspective.
In a way, you're right, I am still getting used to CP. Em is only two-and-a-half years old, so it's still pretty new for me. I love the idea of teaching her to be proud of her CP.
I remember telling Allison before Em's first birthday that while her birthday will always remind us of that difficult day, I don't want that to be the thing we dwell on during that day each year. Her birthday should be special, just like it is for any other kid.
Pushed to the absolute limit. You came thru well. I pray for you and your family! Love to all.
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