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Joshua Doležal's avatar

Really amazing details in those memories (I know I'm echoing Rick). I think that what you describe is true for a lot of Americans who live in places with little intact forest or public land. There's nothing about a particular house (unless it's truly unusual) that draws us back, but 100-acre farms and national forests have that power.

I'm also struck by how different this essay might have been if you'd written it right after your divorce? My conclusions would have been the same as yours just two years ago. In fact, that's why I moved to Pennsylvania to begin with: a willingness to redefine home according to my immediate household.

Really love how you use the malleable house -- the potential to reshape the house to fit the people and their particular needs -- as a concrete illustration of your theme!

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Kris Burbank's avatar

Beautiful. And I so know some of the feelings. Reach out if I can ever be of support regarding the CP stuff. I remember so much of what you describe from back when Andrew was young. I’m here if it helps, Lyle.

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